What if all you need to solve your marital conflict are 7 secret steps to follow?
Sound too good to be true? It isn't. So many women today are at a loss about how to be a wife. They just have no idea how to bring out the best in a man. And why would they? No one taught them! They can't know what they've never been told and what they've never seen modeled.
You don't have to be in the dark anymore.
Allow me to introduce you to Lauren, who came to me when she was just about ready to give up on her marriage. Truth be told, Lauren felt she'd married the wrong man. She was losing hope she’d ever be able to make it work since she’d already spent several years trying to figure things out with no results.
I assured her the chances were slim that she had, in fact, married the wrong man. Most men make perfectly good husbands and live to see their wives happy.
"Then why does he prefer doing anything but spend time with me?"
Probably because the behaviors you're exuding aren't attracting your husband, I said. They're repelling him. Then I showed Lauren how to be the kind of wife a man raves about and can't wait to come home to at night.
I taught her what it means to respect her husband and what this does to the soul of a man.
I told her how important it is to stop directing his traffic and to learn how to receive instead.
I explained the importance of being vulnerable and playful—and of making sure she makes time to relax so she can bring her best self to the table.
She'd never heard these things, she said. She was excited about having a new plan and quickly began putting it to action. Overnight, she said, her marriage felt different. Her husband seemed like a new man! But I assured her that her husband hadn't changed at all. She had, and that made all the difference.
How long have you been living like Lauren, trying to figure this wife thing out on your own?
Learn the 7 secret steps to a peaceful and passionate relationship with your man, and you'll never look back. When you know the words and the behaviors that speak to a man, marital conflict naturally erodes—and you'll create the marriage you crave.
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